Hi All,
I thought i had better post something, since it's been a while since i have. Not that there's much new to reprt. There's not. The boy and I went to his best friend's wedding this weekend just gone. He was in the bridal party, so i didn't see much of him all day. At least there will be some nice photos to remember the day with.
The boy and I have been together for almost 6 years now. I thought i was itching to get to the next stage (meaning engagement). Sitting in that church with his dad sitting next to me, i realised i was scared out of my brain! Listening to the sacred vows of marriage hit a note deep inside me somewhere... and i couldn't think of anything worse than getting married at this time in my life... Is that wrong?
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20 comments:
anything WORSE than getting married?
probably bad
definately
sorry
does it really make u feel like it coldnt be worse, or just make u nervous?
To be honest... YES.
Do you feel like maybe the 6 years thing was just something that worked out and now is seeming like you just settled for it? There would appear to be a shadow of doubt in your mind if these thoughts were with you at the ceremony.
Hey Ozi,
Alrighty then, actually similar story for me, Kat and I have been with eachother for 3 years, and just got back from her cousins wedding.
Just think of this: When we're married, what will be different? Your name (if you choose to take his). But really that's it. If you love him, there's nothing to be scared about.
BUT as the poster said above me - make sure you ACTUALLY love him, and it's not just 6 years spent with him 'cause it was easier that way than being single.
true story brush
where the fuck is katastrophe???
ozi brush has a point... i woudl say the answer is known other than the FINALITY Of getting married, even tho its not really cuz u can always get a divorce! :D
if theres not a LITTLE part in u that wants to get marreid, then i'd say yeah.. hell yea
Thanks for all the help... BRush, i think you're right. I can't picture my life with anyone else but him these days, and i don't really want to be with anyone else but him.
I guess the ceremony just made me nervous, i feel so young! There is plenty of time to get married, so i guess i'll just be content with the way things are for now! :o)
'the boy' WTF???
It sounds as though you have just settled to me. sorry but marriage should not scare you
agreed
not sure.. interesting question tho
yes, you have just settled, you know it and we know it, i think you just dont want to admit it to yourself though
Writing this post has taught me two things...
A) Never talk about my personal life again on this blog
B) That it just doesn't work taking advice from people who 'definitely' know what i have or haven't done with my life, yet have absolutely no idea who i am??
Thanks for making me feel like a fool guys, you really came through!
G'Day OZI!!
Ive just been reading through a few of these comments and I wouldn't get down about what people have written! You posed the question and they have answered, its their opinion!!!
You still have your thoughts on this situation and Im SURE that all of these comments have not changed any of them! Lol...
Can I just say that I attended the same wedding that OZI attended and I sat next to her at the church, with OZI on one side and my boyfriend on the other.
The wedding actually has the opposite effect on me as it did OZI, after being at the wedding and seeing 2 of my friends get married it has made me very excited with anticipation...and I cant wait for the day that I get married! But Im the kind of person who has always been into marriage 100%. I cant wait to marry the person that I love!! I had this whole notion that I wanted to be married by the time I was 23...but that has all been blown out the window as my 23rd birthday was on Saturday...and I not married!!
Me wanting to get married so bad may have something to do with the fact that my parents have never been married but have been together for 25 years! I soppose you dont really need a piece of paper to say that you're married to someone!!
I know that OZI and her man will get married one day! They suit each other very much and I cannot see OZI being with anyone else!!! ;) Cold feet, being scared and all the rest of it!! It may not happen within the next year but I know it will happen one day!!
Ly ya OZI ;)
Sorry, my typing was a bit bad wasnt it! LOL
Awwwww thanks Carlzz!
I know we will too... just not yet... although i wouldn't mind wearing that diamond ring that is just sitting in the wardrobe wasting away ;o) xox Love you too!
Just some outside help for you oz... This place is packed with people who would like to argue on the internet, because they can be faceless and not have to back up their thoughts. So bringing you personal life on here isn't the greatest because half of them are so miserable that they just are dieing to put someone else down. That way they can feel normal for a bit.
Keep your head up and my advice, marriage is a big step, you're probably a little nervouse about not being able to turn back. If that's the case, wait it out, things happen when they're supposed to happen, you shouldn't rush them.
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